Being thoughtful isn’t as hard as it seems. If you like someone and really want to impress them you take note of everything they do. What they wear, their favorite color, etc. Being thoughtful is more about what you remember. It is only natural that people are flattered when you remember details of their personality. When you remember details and this only applies to details it shows that you are interested in them. The feeling of someone knowing the things that make you tick. The knowing that someone knows you for who you are, not just the big things but everything in between. Make someone make you feel special. Make someone feel special about something you did. If you do this than you will have someone special in your life. Make them know you are there. Make them feel like someone loves them in this world and that what everyone wants more than anything (love) is right there in front of them. That discovery is the best ever!

Christmas is finally over! I think it is important to let all know that I actually did get up and have a good Christmas Eve after my last post. Overall Christmas day was great. Even though there was not much in terms of presents I learned this Christmas that you cannot buy a single gift nor receive a single gift and have a great holiday. That was the most important lesson! It is especially important for years to come for similar to this year I may not have hundreds of dollars to spend on getting everyone that right gift. Now I can spend in small amounts on gifts that really take into account people’s personality! On another note it is good that the holidays are coming to an end. You don’t realize how burdensome they are until it is over. The changes in people’s schedules, the decorations, the events, the expectations, the parties… Business hours can return back to normal things can get done and life can move on with a fresh start into 2006. It was nice to get rid of the Christmas themed desktop on my computer. Nice to change the background on my cell phone and its holiday ring tone to the regular ring. So I guess in need to tie up the loose ends of 2005 in the next week or so. I look forward to be a little more free!

Well I guess I should explain why I started a blog in the first place. Its winter break and so far I have been really bored so I have been writing letters to friends of mine one in particular. It is at the point that if I keep sending off letters it will be kind of strange. So since I am on a letter writing diet so why not write to the world. LOL. I think that is the point of a blog. So here goes… The holiday’s puts people in a interesting predicament. Happiness around this time of year revolves around getting all the things you could not get during the year. You may have had your heart broken and may be looking for love. Or you could have been broke all year long and are looking for a type of release. No matter what your desires are the holidays make them seem even further from your reach for many. For others these desires come easily. But lets admit it reaching these goals in such ease during this time of year is unlikely. As I sit here sad because I am not in a house hold full of people, there is not a Christmas Tree in the living room loaded with presents, and there is not that special someone to keep me warm I must remind myself what I do have and what to look forward to in the future. If I don’t want to be in this situation next year make it so that I am not. Get that special someone. Have the tree, the money for the gifts, and the energy to put the little extra Christmas spirit into everything that I do. Next year there will be a lot more time spent getting presents for all the love in my life! More time giving people the feeling of the holiday. Lots more Merry Christmas and many more events! But in the mean time I have to make the best of what I have. I will now get up go into the kitchen with my head held high. I will put on my favorite Christmas tunes, make a good dinner, and bake a good batch of cookies. Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas to all!